You are so right about this. It's exactly what I think women should do. Unfortunately, this is still seen as some sort of taboo and women expect the man to know how to give them pleasure. If a woman doesn't know what she likes, how are we supposed to know? Men always get their pleasure, we are simple creatures. Woman must learn how to give themselves pleasure while being with a man. There's nothing wrong with it. If anything, it only makes it hotter and better for both.